You never thought there was something as being loyal to your Sugar Daddy in an arrangement relationship, right? We all know sugar arrangements are all about enjoying a stress-free and no-strings-attached lifestyle. Sugar arrangements are meant to be short-term relationships, how would the concept of loyalty work in a relationship that is going to last forever?

Loyalty and commitment in sugar arrangements is not a new concept and applies to the sugar bowl as it does to other normal/vanilla relationships. Managing sugar arrangements is easy because you can talk about terms and set expectations from the start. You and your partner decide how to make it work and lay the foundation of it all from the outset. The way sugar arrangements are generally set up, a Sugar Baby cannot object if a Sugar Daddy has other sugar partners and vice versa. However, loyalty and exclusivity can work in a sugar arrangement. Here’s how you can set yourself up for a loyal sugar arrangement.

Define Loyalty
Loyalty is a vast word by many means. Normal relationships define loyalty as not looking outwards of the relationship you two have. However, since sugar arrangements differ from normal relationships, the definition of loyalty changes as well. Define what you mean by loyalty in a sugar arrangement. It can mean that you simply want your partner to fulfil the terms you agreed to or that you may want exclusivity in an arrangement. Sticking to terms is vital in a sugar arrangement. If you don’t you are practically paving the path for frustrating your sugar partner and asking them to compromise. However, sugar arrangements discourage compromises, and so frustrations lead to sugar partners saying goodbye to one another. Defining what you need from a sugar arrangement and setting expectations is a vital part of any relationship.

Communication
Just like any other relationship, openly discussing ideas, needs and expectations are crucial to any sugar arrangement. No wants to do the guesswork, especially not in sugar arrangements. No one wants to get frustrated and laying out expectations in a very specific way is always desirable. Before sitting down with your partner, list down what you want to discuss or just take mental notes. Know that they will come with a list of their own, so be ready to discuss. Once with them, discuss what works for you and what does not. If loyalty and commitment are what you want, expand over the topic and define the terms clearly.

No Compromises
Sugar arrangements are not the place to compromise. You neither enter nor stay in a sugar arrangement knowing that you are getting less than you deserve. Although Sugar Daddies control sugar arrangements, for the most part, don’t stop yourself from defining your expectations clearly and never put all of your needs behind theirs. You and your desire are equally important. Also, keep in mind that we aren’t telling you to be rigid and not listen to what they want. Just lay out your expectations, be willing to be flexible over some stuff, set boundaries for loyalty and know that they agree to those and keeping their part.

Nothing’s Ever Perfect
Talk to people who have lived most of their lives and they will tell you how nothing will ever be perfect and you will eventually have to settle for stuff. Sugar arrangements give you the chance to define what you settle for. Be willing to find a middle way that works for you both. Find that sweet spot, that comfort zone.

Also, when defining expectations and setting terms don’t be shy to go into details ask questions if you have to. Set terms of exclusivity, loyalty and commitment and also decide what happens when either one of you does not comply. There will always be conflicts and you should decide to know how you will handle them. Although experienced sugar babies know better than indulging in conflicts if there are she should be mature enough like her Sugar Daddy to sit and talk. All the discussions of the level of the commitment you both want to have to happen at the start of the relationship.

What’s Next?
What’s next, when all is done? It’s on both of you to then fulfil the terms you agreed to, however, this can only happen if you respect one another. Compatibility and trust can be taken for granted in a sugar arrangement, but they are equally important in the sugar lifestyle. Once you have agreed to terms, just respect what you agreed to, respect your arrangement and the time they take out for you, because that respect will empower you to adhere to all those terms and fulfil their expectations.