Although sugar and vanilla relationships are two different things, however, people often go an extra mile in differentiating between sugar and normal vanilla relationships. Yes, they are indeed in contrast with each other, however, sugar relationships not exactly the opposite of vanilla relationships. Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies want almost the same stuff from each other, the only major difference is that a sugar arrangement remains no-strings-attached and stress-free relationship.

It wouldn’t be all that wrong to say that both the Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby look forward to a girlfriend-boyfriend experience, with the exception that the relationship starts and then remains at their terms and there is no guesswork involved. Moreover, most of the control remains with the Sugar Daddy, however, this does not mean that the Sugar Baby has no say in everything that a sugar arrangement comprises of. She needs everything she needed in a vanilla relationship; except that she will not bother her Sugar Daddy or keep tabs on him. He is free to do whatever they want in their time, but when with her, she wants him to take care of her.

Vanilla vs. Sugar Relationships
Not a competition by means, but just for the sake of it, a vanilla relationship has some kind of feelings involved whereas sugar arrangements remain mutually beneficial, no-strings-attached arrangements. Loyalty, trust and boundaries are a part of both sugar and vanilla relationships, but how you define these differ based on the relationship you are in. In sugar arrangements, you set different kind of boundaries that come without stress. Sugar arrangements are also not all that serious and breaking up is easier than vanilla relationships. Partners can have multiple sugar arrangements without hurting anyone’s feelings. Sugar arrangements are not your everyday monotonous relationships. The dynamic always keeps you involved and on your toes. Sugar Daddies should realize that the fact that they are providing for their Sugar Baby does mean that all they have to do is enjoy and exercise their power. Sugar Babies want Sugar Daddies to take care of them in every way possible.

Show Interest In What She’s Interested In
The best thing anyone can ask for in a relationship is when you start taking interest in their hobbies and passions. Get to know what she likes and remember that she expects her Sugar Daddy to help live the life of her dreams. As a well off man, you can help enable her living a luxurious life. You don’t even have to take out time, you can just plan and pay for a trip she has been looking forward to. This will show that you remember her needs and will make her feel valued. Too many Sugar Daddies take their Sugar Babies for granted. When a Sugar Baby sees you making an effort for her happiness she will appreciate it.

Make Good Use Of Every Second Together
Once you get to know each other, it is easy to fall prey to the comfort zone and start caring less. However, experienced Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies know that there is no comfort zone in sugar arrangements. No one is overwhelming the other and you only meet or talk when you feel that you need to. Your Sugar Baby knows that she has to be understanding and not bother you if you get busy and not show up for a date. However, when you finally do, she will expect you to arrange everything and make the best use of your time together. You could either plan an amazing evening or just choose to cuddle in the bedroom. What you do should be governed by you and your Sugar Baby’s preferences. Just try and read her mind, and don’t take her needs for granted.

Buy Her Thoughtful Gifts
Your Sugar Baby will expect you to do something different every time. If she wanted ordinary or routine, she would have opted for just any other guy. Pay attention to clues she gives and construct your dates around them. It is a given that any Sugar Baby will expect her Sugar Daddy to shower her with gifts and take care of her needs. Every Sugar Daddy does that, if you want to stand out and keep her for a long-term, take out some time, put in effort in choosing a gift and find something tailored to her needs.

Support Her
Sugar Daddies love goal-oriented Sugar Babies and if you have managed to land one, the best you can do to show that you care for her is help her in achieving her dreams. If she lets you know of a certain goal, let her know that she can trust you and help her in every way you can. Sugar Babies know that Sugar Daddies only let those they trust in their secrets. When you show that you are interested in helping her achieve her dreams, she will see the effort you are making and appreciate it.

Recreate Your Moments
What is it that made her fall for you? What is it that you think made her get attracted to you? Never be comfortable or think that she wants you to. If you think your arrangement is slowly losing that spark, the best way to reintroduce is to recreate that amazing first date or any date you both liked best. Sugar Daddies often think they do not need to take care of their Sugar Babies and that she will stay anyway. That is not true. Sugar arrangements are short term relationships, but if you feel you need to keep a Sugar Baby around for a longer period, you will need to show her that you care.