Figuring out what your Sugar Daddy likes can be fun at the start of a new relationship, but if you are a Sugar Baby in a relationship with a Sugar Daddy who is hesitant to discuss intimacy with you, the getting-to-know each other phase can become frustrating and awkward where only one person is doing all the effort. Some people tend to be direct when asking others what they prefer in bed while others respond very casually to this question. While it’s okay to be generous and say you’d be up for anything the other person wants but to really enjoy sex and make it a worthwhile experience for each other, both the Sugar Baby and Sugar Daddy should tell the other person what they like.
Another way of starting the conversation regarding intimate subjects is to start by telling your Sugar Daddy what you like. By doing this you will not only be educating the partner of your preferences but also starting a conversation which might lead to them dropping hints of their kinks, fetishes and something they’d want to try. It may not sound good to start the conversation but it is definitely worth it in the long run. Being direct or starting the conversation are just two ways to learn about your Sugar Daddy’s turn-ons but there many others too, some of which are listed below.
The Yes-No-Maybe is a fairly simple exercise where you both are handed a paper with an extensive list of sexual activities on it. What is required of both the Sugar Baby and Sugar Daddy is to answer each activity with a Yes, No or Maybe depending upon how comfortable you’d be in trying out a sexual activity. When you’re done, both of you should sit down and compare your lists to see if there’s something to negotiate and what your partner is ok with.
The best way to approach the subject of romance and intimacy at the start of a new sugar relationship is communicating honestly and openly. Whether it’s a new position you want to try or a sex toy he wants to incorporate into your sex lives, both the Sugar Baby and Sugar Daddy need to be open about what you want. Learning about your Sugar Daddy’s turn-ons will result in a more rewarding sugar relationship for you.
Choose The Place Of Conversation Carefully
Sometimes the topic of intimacy gets tough for Sugar Daddies too. Even if they’re leading an organization and are successful wealthy businessman they’d still be feeling the pressure of keeping a young, beautiful person like yourself sexually satisfied. One way to make things easier for your Sugar Daddy is to discuss such subjects in a neutral setting. Make sure you never talk about sex while in bed or right after making love. Alternatively, you can talk about such things in a casual setting. For instance, you can bring up the topic of romance on a Sunday Brunch and keep the conversation light and fun.
Often times what can’t be said in words can be communicated by non-verbal communication. Pay close attention to non-verbal cues such as moans and the body language of your Sugar Daddy while making love. Non-verbal cues such as tightening of the grip or gasping for air are strong cues that a person likes what you are doing to their body.
Another way to get your Sugar Daddy talking about what he loves is to compliment them first. When you compliment on a move they made in bed last night chances are they’ll look to pay back the debt by praising a certain move of yours. Take notes of what your Sugar Daddy likes and make sure you pay attention to those parts or that specific activity the next time you are together.
Films and Books
By simply asking of your Sugar Daddy’s opinion about a certain scene in a movie or a paragraph of a book such as the Fifty Shades of Grey you can get them to comment on a certain activity. This practice is less intimidating for a person who is shy or unwilling to discuss intimacy but also serves the purpose.
Many of us approach sex and intimacy like something that will miraculously work out itself, however, the fact is that having sex regularly and having quality and satisfying sex are two different things and the first step to a more fulfilling experience for both the Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby is transparent communication.