Living in a sugaring world comes with a lot of responsibilities and expectations from both ends. A sugar relationship is governed by a set of rules or terms agreed upon mutually by both partners, keeping in view the needs and expectations of a Sugar Daddy & Sugar Baby. Just like any other relationship, the success of an ideal sugar relationship lies in the bond of trust, honest communication, compatibility and above all putting everything on the table, even complex topics such as allowance, without any fear of judgement.

Talking money can be really awkward, even in a Sugar relationship, but there’s no denying that it is an integral part of any sugar relationship. If you’re worried regarding bringing the allowance topic up for discussion, that’s alright. You may think you may come out as someone who is just outright greedy. However, like everything else in a relationship, there’s always a right time to discuss your allowance with a Sugar Daddy. The key is to not rush and get to know each other first.

Wait for It!
So you’ve spent weeks perfecting your Sugar Baby profile, going through Sugar Daddy profiles and have finally arrived on one that you think would be a great match. What do you do now? Go straight to the money talk? No, you don’t. First, you converse and pave the way for a first date. Once you land a date, you go out, have fun and get to know each other. You don’t want to come off too desperate or scare a Sugar Daddy off by discussing allowance on the first date. The key is to not rush into and focus on connecting with him on several levels. However, you don’t want to be too late to ask, since by then you would already have invested time and energy and walking away would become just a tad harder.

We suggest you keep the allowance talk for the second or third date and when the time comes, realize this that you don’t need to feel awkward because allowances are a part of any sugar arrangement. If you’re still confused about how to approach the subject of allowance, here are a few tips to get you through the process.

Determining Your Allowance
Several Sugar Babies make the mistake of determining their allowance with respect to their appearance, physique, looks and beauty. They start taking into account their attributes and compare the amount of allowance to that. What you need to know is that before you were a Sugar Baby you were a human, and you still are. You are priceless. Thinking your allowance should be equivalent to how beautiful you are is definitely the wrong way to go!

Instead, the allowance you get should be in line with your needs and also directly proportional to the attention you are giving your Sugar Daddy. A Sugar Baby’s monthly allowance can depend on tens of different factors such as the amount to require a comfortable lifestyle, your monthly rent, your daily expenses and more. Figure out a suitable monetary range keeping in view your needs.

Ask For It
So you have met someone, someone who clicked someone with the same interests and mindset. The decision of how many times you guys will meet over a week or month-long period has also been decided along with the activities involved.

Once you have agreed on terms, it is your right to ask for a suitable allowance from your Sugar Daddy. Be honest with your Sugar Daddy about the amount you want and even regarding how you want it transferred. Decide what happens if you don’t meet for a fortnight, how will the allowance be calculated then? Be upfront and open. Your Sugar Daddy should be willing to have an open discussion regarding and if he makes you guilt when you bring this topic up, he might not be the one. However, that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t take into account his opinions.

Sizing It Up
A common yet reliable technique is to first ask for their range. This will give you an idea regarding how much they are willing to spoil. However, we’d suggest you be as subtle as you can when asking this since you don’t want to come off as someone who is being too pushy and wants in on some really personal details. If this is his first arrangement, asking this question will become even easier. When he asks what is it that you can bring to the arrangement, subtly register the fact that this is partially dependent on the level of support from his side. Let him pick up honest and connect the dots for you.

Confidence Goes a Long Way
Sugar Daddies don’t usually bargain hunt and that’s something most Sugar Babies forget. They know there a lot of fish in the sea, but this is equally true for you as well. After getting to know them, your next step should be showing them you can go all-in when it comes to fulfilling their needs. When he finally asks for your allowance, confidently respond with the number you have in mind. Don’t let this number you have in mind or this conversation overwhelm you. An experienced Sugar Daddy will pick your nervousness up in a moment.