When a Sugar Baby starts dating a new Sugar Daddy she’d obviously want to impress her in the getting-to-know-each-other stage but trying too hard is never a good idea. To introduce intimacy right from the outset of your sugar relationship will mostly never have a positive effect on your relationship. Sugar Daddies like women who are mature and know their worth, hence do not give up everything on the first date or the few that follow. Also, if you are a Sugar Baby who doesn’t believe in getting intimate on the first date is doing so just to impress your Sugar Daddy that means you are not being your authentic self.
If the partners in a relationship are not acting according to their personalities they will never get an accurate idea of they fit together or not. We know it can feel awkward to discuss you kinkiest desires with someone you’ve just started dating but it is definitely worth it. Discussing what you want is how to build the foundation of intimacy in a relationship; here are a few tips on how to get started.
One of the most important parts of a relationship is communication and so the best way a Sugar Baby and Sugar Daddy can figure out their wants and wishes is to just talk about sex. You should be clear about your sexual preferences and about how often you’d want to have sex. The frequency and level of intimacy will and can obviously change in the near future but laying some ground rules is always a good idea. Talking about what you want in bed leads to more satisfying sex.
Keep It Light
Experts suggest that while talking about sex is a good idea, these sexual conversations should almost always happen outside of the bedroom. You should keep the conversation light, ask questions and be able to listen to what your Sugar Daddy or Sugar Baby has to say. If you are not comfortable talking about sex over brunch, you could always opt to sext instead. Text him from the comfort of your home and soon you’d be realizing you both have similar interests. While having these conversations it is important to not make fun of the other person; respect is always the way forward in relationships.
Don’t Shy Away
If you think talking about sex early in a relationship may kill your urge to get intimate with your partner, you’re wrong. Imagine a Sugar Baby and Sugar Daddy are both into light BDSM but never knew this until the 20th date because they never discussed it. On the other hand, there’s a couple who knew about their interests from the very interest. Who do you think would be more sexually satisfied?
Sexual compatibility can be a tricky thing to figure out especially at the start of a sugar relationship. There is no way to tell what the other person wants from just talking about routine stuff. However, it is still possible to look for certain characteristic in your Sugar Baby or Sugar Daddy to give you an idea of if you both are sexually compatible. Listed below a few2 things that could help you in determining your sexual compatibility.
A Spark Apart
Stating that a more compatible couple will feel an immediate spark between each other may feel a bit obvious but you’d surprised to know2 many people stay in relationships even when there’s no chemistry. Granted it takes time to get to know each other and how your bodies work but you should be starting from a good foundation nonetheless.
Know What You Want
Experience is crucial in every field of life to progress and intimacy is no different. People who’ve had some experience would know what they want from their partner and hence would work to select a more compatible partner. You don’t need to have slept with hundreds of people in order to be called someone who’s fairly experienced; a couple of experiences are more than enough to act as reference points. A compatible Sugar Baby or Sugar Daddy are experienced, they know what they want and are not afraid to communicate that to their partner.
Don’t Shy Away From Communication
A compatible couple communicates their consent and boundaries and is also able to accept feedback from each other. If a Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby are able to talk about sex openly, it is a sign that their relationship would be a healthy one. Although it will take some to communicate without hesitation, partners who are hesitant to discuss intimacy are no good.
Quality Not Quantity
Compatible partners respect each other and hence they are focused more towards making their experience worthwhile rather than have sex every day. They know that if they get to know each other’s desires well, they’ll be spending quality time together and regularity will then follow naturally.
It is important to realize that you won’t ever find a partner who is 100% compatible with you and that’s ok. There will always be minor incompatibilities but they won’t hurt your relationship. If a Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby respect the similarities and are willing to accept the differences, they are set for a long-term happy relationship.