Going on a first sugar date can be stressful for a Sugar Daddy. Some people are of the opinion that it is only Sugar Babies that are under pressure when meeting a Sugar Daddy, however, that is not the case. Sugar Daddies are older men and when meeting a Sugar Baby they do feel the pressure of wanting to impress someone who is much younger than them. Going on sugar dates requires preparation and you should allocate enough time to do just that. We have listed the top 5 tips to help you get ready for your first date with a Sugar Baby.
Plan The Date
Taking your Sugar Baby to a dinner or movie isn’t a bad idea. However, it has to be kept in mind that she knows that you aren’t like any other guy she has dated before. You are wealthy and mature. What’s the use of all this wealth if you can’t show her that you treat her to something special? A Sugar Daddy should always try to arrange a date that is extraordinary.
Choose a place that oozes class. When you get there, let her order whatever she wants. Also, choose a place that you’ve been before. When you know the surroundings better you feel more confident in yourself. Always take lead in planning the date, she expects this from you. A first sugar date is your chance to show her how she will be treated with you around.
Whatever you choose to wear, keep three factors in mind. Always be classy, choose what you’re confident in and never showboat. She knows you can own anything you want so it is not about showboating as much as it is about showing that you have enough to maintain a classy look for yourself. If you look like someone who can take care of themselves, only then will perceive you as someone who can take care of her. Feeling confident in what you wear is important as well because it keeps you feeling good about yourself and helps you emit positive energy only.
Don’t Stay Too Long
Plan the first sugar date for a timeframe that is just enough for you to get to know her and also maintaining a bit of curiosity. You wouldn’t want her to know everything on the first date. The first date is about getting to each other enough to make a decision if you want to meet your sugar partner for the second date. The terms and agreements should be left for the dates to come after the first one.
Also, when asking her about herself do not dig too deep. Ask what you need to know and believe what she tells you. Keep in mind that you aren’t looking for a life partner and sugar dating is about always keeping the stress levels low. As a Sugar Daddy, you should know the importance of privacy in the sugar dating world. Never ask for her full name or where she lives unless the arrangement gets more involved. This will make her uncomfortable and make you look like a novice. Sugar dating is about discretion and respecting each other regardless.
Sure, you are a mature man who is at a different place in life. There is an age gap between you and your Sugar Baby but that doesn’t mean you can’t have fun together. If she feels that you are someone who is fun to be with, she would be able to push your limits and install some of her youthful energy into you once/if you start a sugar arrangement together. Sugar dating is about looking at a life from a new perspective and no one wants a boring Sugar Daddy.
All you have to is realize that there is a fine line between having fun and overdoing it. Don’t get cocky, keep you mature personality intact but also be open and willing enough to embark on new adventures together. At a first sugar date, you have act mature, but also sounds like you love having fun.
Keep Intimacy For Later
Sugar Babies are college girls who have been with immature guys who don’t know how to respect girls. They often fight with their partners on petty issues just because they’re frustrated with their lives. You are unlike them. When she meets you, a mature guy, who knows how to treat her lady right, she might want to kiss you on the first date, however, you should not.
Experienced Sugar Babies know that they shouldn’t be giving themselves on the first sugar date, so you should also not make a move. Sugar Daddies should be anything but desperate. It’s not the best idea to get physical on a first Sugar Date. Only if you act like a true gentleman will you get a chance of a second date with her. We hope you enjoyed these top 5 tips for a great sugar date, many more tips are coming soon!