The Sugar Daddy for me is what every sugar baby wants out of arrangement dating. A Sugar Baby enjoys an extremely luxurious life, however, once a Sugar Baby has secured a Daddy, becoming and remaining desirable to Sugar Daddies takes work. There is no shortage of options in the sugar dating arena, and if a Sugar Daddy isn’t satisfied he will look for one of the thousands of other Sugar Babies who can work with him for mutual satisfaction and a no strings attached arrangement. The reasons why someone would opt for the sugar life are different. Finding a Sugar Daddy takes patience, but sustaining a long term sugar relationship comes with its challenges.

Contrary to popular belief, neither the Sugar Daddy is in it for the sex only and nor is a Sugar Baby attracted to the sugar bowl for just the monetary benefits. Sugar dating is pretty similar to vanilla relationships in a lot of aspects. To put in simple words, the goal, pretty much, is to develop a connection without catching feelings. To date like you would if you had a normal boyfriend. More often than not, long-lasting sugar relationships do not require major gestures. They just require a Sugar Baby to practice the basics: be passionate towards the relationship, show affection and put in a conscious effort to get to know her Sugar Daddy.

Pay Attention
Very common, but one of the most underrated aspects of a successful sugar arrangement is partners that simply pay attention to what the other person wants, needs and is trying to communicate. Moreover, Sugar Daddies are successful men who are very used to getting a lot of attention anyway and would love the same from his Sugar Baby. After all, who does not like to be listened to?

Showcasing an active interest in your sugar partner’s life and personality may not be a part of the formal agreement, but it sure does help a Sugar Baby stand out from the crowd. However, what also needs to be kept in mind is that a Sugar Baby would not like a Baby that is a doormat. Sugar Daddies love women who can be independent and have a say. Having an opinion oozes confidence, which is another trait Sugar Daddies like.

Exercise Patience
Being the part of a sugar bowl does not mean you’d suddenly be offered all the luxuries you could imagine. Granted that a Sugar Daddy should let her Sugar Baby experience the finer things in life, however, as a Sugar Baby you should not be giving the impression that you are only here to mooch off your Sugar Daddy’s wealth. Instead, just trust the process and play your part. Focus your attention towards spending fun time with him, and generally being a person he’d love to have around. Show that you care for the connection more than its material benefits. As a Sugar Baby, your goal should be to act like a girlfriend without actually being one.

Managing Emotional Expectations
Developing a connection that isn’t fake requires honesty. No real connection can be void of emotions. The goal, as a Sugar Baby, is to find a balance between feeling towards your Sugar Daddy and getting over-emotional. Attachment is a big no-no in sugar arrangements, however, no Sugar Daddy would mind a true connection.

With emotional drama comes stress, and that is precisely why successful men opt to not be vanilla relationships. It is not that they don’t feel emotions, they just do not want the pressure that comes with commitment. So, if there is a young, beautiful girl who knows how to connect with an older man without getting over attached, any Sugar Daddy would want to keep her around.

Honesty is the Best Policy Indeed
You’d probably think honesty has nothing to do with sugar arrangements where everything is already documented. However, not only does abiding by the terms of a sugar agreement require honesty, Sugar Daddies love Sugar Babies they can trust. For instance, if you are a Sugar Baby who’d like to keep her relationship status hidden, discuss discretion with your Sugar Daddy instead of lying to him. Lying breaks off trust in vanilla relationships and sugar arrangements are no different. Honesty also letting the other person know the arrangement is not working for you. If a Sugar Daddy is no longer fulfilling your needs, just let them know.

Have Goals of Your Own
Ambitions make anyone more interesting to listen to and be with. Sugar Daddies absolutely adore women who have goals of their own. A Sugar Baby doesn’t need to be a successful entrepreneur for a Sugar Daddy to like her, just a general sense of direction is enough. It not only tells the Sugar Daddy that a Sugar Baby is not just looking to rely on them for the financial part. Instead, she has plans of her own but is just looking to enjoy life at the moment.

At conferences, workplaces, meetings and more, sugar daddies are always around women who are either successful or aspire to do so. They’d not mind having the same trait in their beautiful, college-going Sugar Baby. In fact, if a Sugar Daddy trusts you enough, he might even be willing to mentor you! Sugar arrangements are not that far off from vanilla relationships. Honesty, trust, open communication and communication are the building blocks of a successful sugar arrangement as well. If a Sugar Baby is willing to do just a bit more in making the connection feel more than just a transaction, no Sugar Daddy would want to let her go.