The importance of sexual compatibility can’t be ignored. Intimacy is one of the foundations of any successful relationship. Whether vanilla or sugar dating, intimacy eventually does play a role in deciding the fate of any relationship. When a Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby start dating, both partners are obviously anxious to know how well they’d do in bed. However, as much as figuring the intimate part of a relationship does fall under the umbrella of getting to know each other, discussing sex too soon is not ideal.

Sugar Daddies like women who are mature and confident. They would love to be with young, beautiful women, but would like them even more if they know their worth. On the other hand, experienced Sugar Babies won’t fall for Sugar Daddies who are all about sex on the first date. A woman who is confident about what she brings to the table won’t ever be thrilled by a man who just wants to get in her pants. Therefore, it is ideal to connect before talking intimacy. A Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby should take the few first few dates to build towards more complex subjects such as sex and finalizing the agreement.

Managing Expectations on the First Date
The first few dates in a sugar arrangement are all about setting the tone of the relationship. They are about letting the person what you expect from the arrangement and what you’re willing to bring to the table. Hence, communicate! Say what you want, from stuff as basic as the amount of time you’d like to spend together to more complex subjects as exclusivity and privacy in a sugar arrangement.

Any relationship works well if the partners know each other well and sugar dating is no different. Only if a Sugar Daddy knows you well enough to gauge your personality, will he want to spend time with you. For instance, Sugar Daddies like women who can hold a conversation and are in control of themselves. This is because they are usually surrounded by such women at work. If a Sugar Daddy gets to know their Sugar Baby and finds these qualities in her, he not only has a mature woman, but also one that is hot! Similarly, Sugar Babies are looking for gentlemen who know how to treat them right and have them experience the finer things in life. When both partners know and like each other, intimacy gets better automatically.

However, again, first dates are about getting to know each other but also have fun. Once you think you have laid some groundwork, you can decide that now you’d want to have conversations about sex, privacy, exclusivity and monetary matters.

Sexual Cravings and Compatibility
Before moving on to how compatible you’d be with your Sugar Daddy or Sugar Baby, you should know what you want from this arrangement. If you know the level of intimacy you desire and your needs as a partner only then can you judge if your Daddy or Baby is compatible enough for you. However, it needs to be said that you won’t everything in your Sugar partner and will have to find a common ground if you want to keep them around. But it also needs to be kept in mind that sugar dating is great because there is very less room for compromise. The key is to find a balance between each other’s needs and wants.

Once you’ve decided it’s time to discuss intimacy, do not shy away. Start with how often you see yourself indulging in intimate activities. Identify basic boundaries and encourage each other to discuss kinks and fetishes. Everyone has their own set of kinds and experiencing them together is a great way of getting even close to your sugar partner. Furthermore, they help keep things spiced up and interesting.

As a human being, you deserve to be with someone who wants almost the same intimate stuff that you do. After all, that is what sexual compatibility is. You shouldn’t have to convince your partner to indulge in a certain activity every time. The best thing about a sugar arrangement is that everything can be discussed and this does not have to be different when it comes to intimacy.

It’s All About Building a Great Foundation
If you think discussing intimacy with your sugar partner might make you sound needy, you’re wrong. A relationship where you can experience intimacy with a sexually compatible partner or one where you do enjoy all other luxuries but do not have the slightest of emotional connections; what would you rather have? It is understandable that no two people can magically learn how they would perform while in the sack to satisfy each other to the fullest. Like everything else in a relationship, this has a learning curve to it too, however, what’s the harm in feeling building a great base?

With open communication, you can not only fulfill each other’s needs but also together figure out a way to making your intimate experiences worthwhile as your progress through the stages of a successful sugar arrangement. Differences can’t be eliminated, however, as long as a Sugar Baby and Sugar Daddy learn to appreciate the similarities, and keep it consensual, sexual compatibility goes a long way in building a lasting sugar relationship.