Living in a fast-paced world where you get to meet different people daily each with different characteristics and unique traits; finding someone to mentally, emotionally and physically rely upon isn’t difficult. The sugar bowl is a perfect blend of Sugar Daddies and Sugar babies, looking for a perfect fit for each other. There are a gazillion sugar babies like you out there, some are into luxury, others are looking for someone to mentor them, some are experienced and some are newbies for a causal relationship while have plans to find long term arrangements and finding love along the way.
If you are someone who is looking for a long term relationship, not only do you want to have fun and a luxurious lifestyle but also a find a man who genuinely cares for you apart from the monthly allowances and more. Granted that Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies don’t enter the Sugar world to find the right life partner, but quite a few end up together in a long term arrangement or even find love. We as humans think that we have control over our emotions but most of the time we don’t. When you meet the right person, it evokes emotions from deep within you, which you did not know existed at the first place.
The sugar world consists of all types of Sugar Daddies. Some might match your pace and will be alright while committing for a long-term relationship while others may not be willing to take this road. If you are a Sugar Baby that enjoys long-term arrangements, here’s how you can weed out the short-term Sugar Daddies.
Perfecting your Profile
To find the right Sugar partner it is imperative that you list down your preferences and complete your profile so only those sugar partners who match your interests approach you. From a relationship purely based on luxury to finding a mentor, from an explicit relation to long term arrangements, mention clearly what you desire from a sugar arrangement. Your profile is like a resume where you jot down your interests and give hints to your potential sugar partner which would then help him figure out if he’s eligible to match those preferences or not. Perfecting the profile is one way of easily eliminating short term Sugar Daddies right from the outset. On the other hand, it is also important for you to skim through a Sugar Daddy’s profile before approaching them.
Sugaring – So Much More Than Sex
Sugar world is an intricate blend of various types of potential sugar partners each having a diverse range of interests and needs. This pool incorporates men with a lot of experience to men who don’t have any. Sugar Daddies are confident, experienced, and successful men who have witnessed life through a dynamic lens, which is why Sugar Babies expect them to be mature and not try to get into a young woman’s pants at the first chance they get. Experienced Sugar Babies know better than settling for Sugar Daddies who have a singular goal in mind – sex. If you feel that whatever you do leads to sex or he deliberately puts you in situations that lead to intimacy, you should understand that he might not be in for the long haul with you.
Communication – The Key
Keeping your potential sugar partner and yourself at ease is not a piece of cake if you dodge honest communication. The stronger the communication, the stronger the relationship and the better chance partners have at satisfying each other. Most Sugar Daddies are business-oriented successful men who value respect, honesty, and diligence. They like open and honest conversations, keeping everything on the table from the start. Sugar partners don’t have time o waste which is why if you are someone looking for a long-term arrangement, your best bet is communicating the same from the start. Even if you don’t end up talking about long-term expectations on the first date, try and notice if he could be someone who you would be comfortable in dating long-term and take things forward accordingly.
Compatibility Matters
Getting to know each other is the first and foremost step in maintaining a healthy Sugar relationship. Compatibility in sugar is often underrated, whereas, the truth is that just like any other relationship compatibility matters in a the sugar world, especially if one’s looking for a long term arrangement. When you meet your Sugar Daddy on a first date or are even browsing their profile, look for hobbies, interests and more that you have in common. If your interests and needs from a sugar relationship are drastically different from his, there is a chance he’s not the long term arrangement partner you are looking for.
Don’t Force It
Just like a normal one-sided relationship, Sugar relations can also be one-sided where one party falls in love with the partner and the other just does not feel the same way. If you feel a certain way for a Sugar Daddy don’t push things forward because if you do you might lose your Sugar Daddy, not to mentioned the decreased self-respect. Be patient and let his gestures direct you, because the one who is meant for you will stay with you no matter what.
What’s Next!
Once you think you have found a Sugar Daddy who you think could be your perfect match for a long term relationship, your first step should be letting him know. Treat him differently and try to let him know that you are much more than a Sugar Baby. Start treating in a way that makes him feels as if it’s something beyond a normal Sugar relationship. Don’t panic. Don’t stress out. You are mature, bold and beautiful and you deserve. Let him know how you feel and if he has the same feelings for you, you are sorted; if not then remember there’s another Sugar Daddy waiting for you out there.
