Sugar Babies looking for a Sugar Daddy can increase their chances by simply making the first move. Everyone loves attention and since a sugar relationship is more direct, it’s rewarding for Sugar Babies to take the initiative. Dating certainly isn’t what it was 60 years ago and there is no reason why sugar culture should conform to outdated dating habits. We encourage real connections and real sugar relationships so we don’t want anyone missing out on a potential dream date because they were too shy or stubborn to send the first message. Below we’ve listed just a few reasons as to why a Sugar Baby should start the conversation with Sugar Daddies and how it can benefits their dating life.

For Your Benefit
Studies by mainstream dating sites show that women making the first move meet men that are more successful and attractive than women that just pick their favorite man from their inbox. This is of course common sense since the number of potential dates in your inbox is nowhere near the number of members on the site.

Standing Out
Sugar Babies that shift the dynamic gain a big advantage over Sugar Babies that simply wait to be contacted. The Sugar Daddy is more likely to prioritize a Sugar Baby that makes the first move since it shows that without a doubt, the Sugar Baby likes their profile and looks thus increasing their interest.

Elite Membership
Sugar Daddies that pay extra for the Elite “Generous” Membership are looking forward to the extra attention they’ll receive from Sugar Babies. If while browsing members you see anyone with an Elite Membership and labeled “Generous”, say hello because they definitely want you to and happily paid more for it.

Sky’s Limit
People in general message individuals who are more successful and attractive than they are. If you wait to have your inbox filled with messages from individuals that initiate the conversation, you are most likely losing out big on the more generous Sugar Daddies and the Sugar Daddies that most appeal to you.

Dating More
Sugar Babies that initiate the conversation will easily start dating more! When messaging first, they are at least 30% more likely to turn a conversation into a real date. Adding this statistic to the already great benefit of messaging your favorite Sugar Daddies, the decision on messaging first should be very clear.

Successful Messages
A good introductory message will be two to four sentences long and include only a simple hello, what you find most appealing about the Sugar Daddy’s profile, a comment relevant to your compatibility, and a question relevant to their interests. It’s helpful to always keep it simple, positive, and easy to read.