Every new Sugar baby and Sugar Daddy joins the Sugar bowl because of their own reasons when seeking arrangements. We can never in a million miles list of all of those but we do know that most of the girls and guys entering the sugar scene want mutually beneficial stress-free relationships. Most Sugar Daddies are successful businessmen and most Sugar Babies are in college or have just finished college. Some sugar partners may want to keep their relationship discreet and prefer meeting in some place other than the city they reside in.
Although a no-strings-attached relationship is desired by many Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies, some Sugar Daddies are also looking for a lovely lady to settle down with or are at least open to a serious relationship. What happens when you find such a Sugar Daddy? What are the signs that he wants something more than a sugar arrangement? How to handle this situation? These are just some of the questions you might find asking yourself if you ever meet such a Sugar Daddy.
Yes, a sugar arrangement can get messy when deep love is involved, but we are humans after all and the presence of emotions is what makes us human. Both Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies can easily end up developing feelings for one another when seeking arrangements. Factors behind it may differ but it sure can happen.
Sugar Daddy Falls For Sugar Daddy
All sorts of things are happening in our lives and that includes meeting different kinds of people. Suppose you’re dating a Sugar Daddy and he’s been acting differently since the past few days. All of a sudden it dawns on you that it is because he is viewing your relationship from a different perspective.
For a girl to be a Sugar Baby, she must look the part at all times; meaning she must dress nicely, be a people’s person, and intelligent. She is also expected to care of the Sugar Daddy’s needs as agreed in the agreement at the start of the relationship. When a Sugar Daddy falls for a Sugar Baby, she can look at it as an opportunity to covert the casual dating arrangement of being spoiled to a 24/7 serious thing.
When a Sugar Daddy starts viewing the arrangement as something more than just a Sugar Baby fling, he will start dropping hints. Some of them might be subtle and some very loud. For instance, he might invite you to his house, just to give you a feel of his lifestyle which would also be yours if you start living together. Keeping in mind that sharing addresses and inviting sugar partners to your home is off the limits in many arrangements, a Sugar Daddy taking you to his home is a big deal.
What Should You Do?
If you’re faced with such a scenario where a Sugar Daddy has confessed his feelings or you have realized you have feelings for him, you need to slow down a bit. Take some time and assess if your feelings are genuine. Would you still consider being with him for a lifetime if he wasn’t so successful like he is now? Know that arrangements are supposed to be filled with him showering you with gifts but a long-term relationship is much more than the perks that come with sugaring.
Many Sugar Babies would tell you to just take what you’re getting and do not ruin a good thing by introducing feelings into the equation. However, if you think your feelings are genuine and your Sugar Daddy feels the same way, there’s no one stopping you from taking the next step.
When faced with such a confusing situation as a Sugar Baby, you act in one of the three ways.
Let It Go
So, you don’t feel the same about your Sugar Daddy or have realized that he doesn’t like you to, the best you can do is to end the relationship. If you keep it going, you’ll only be wasting each other’s time. Our heart knows when the feelings are real and if they are motivated by material benefits don’t move forward.
Even if you’ve discussed the situation with your Sugar Daddy and he has assured you that he doesn’t have feelings for you, you can’t be mad at him because love was never supposed to be a part of this arrangement.
Let Him Know
This can be the hardest thing to know but can also be worth it if you end up wanting a serious relationship and arrangement. If you let him know, you’ll be exposing yourself to possible extreme consequences, both negative and positive. The ideal situation would be that you confess your feelings to your Sugar Daddy or he does the same with you and both of you share the exact same feelings. However, this can’t be said for sure. Your Sugar partner may even get confused or surprised listening to something like this.
Choose Sugar Over Love
Suppose you have developed feelings for your Sugar Daddy, but you know for a fact that he doesn’t feel the same way. When faced with such a situation, some Sugar Babies choose Sugar over love. They choose to keep quiet regarding their feelings so they can keep enjoying all the perks. However, this is easier said than done. If you think of this as a suitable possibility for you, take time away from your arrangement and think you can really pull this off.
It is only human to get attached someone who takes cares of you and being a Sugar Daddy or Sugar Baby, this can happen when you see the next person doing everything to keep you happy. Love does happen in the Sugar world, but you should never start a relationship with an expectation of getting to make them fall in love with you when seeking arrangements.