Once a Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby start online dating communication, the next move, naturally, is to move from texting to date as a sugar partner. Many newbies find it hard to move from messaging to setting up a date. You would think that asking a Sugar Baby out on a date should be an easy task for a Sugar Daddy who ultimately has to provide for her, but it is not. Different people make different several different mistakes when wanting to move from texting to a date. Many factors play a crucial role when sugar partners reach this situation. Before asking a Sugar Baby out on a date, a Sugar Daddy needs to know the level of influence he has on a Sugar Baby. The relationship dynamic needs to be understood before making a move.
Let’s take a look at how the experts advise Sugar Daddies to move from messaging online to texting and then to dating.
Online Dating Messaging
The first to kickstarting any sugar arrangement is to browse through Sugar Baby profiles, find one you think you will have a fine arrangement with and then starting communication. Since a Sugar Daddy is considered to be in charge, he shouldn’t hesitate in messaging first. If a Sugar baby is interested she will respond. Just make sure you do not send a lame ‘hi’ but instead send a short message with a few introduction lines. An experienced Sugar Baby will reply with the same short introduction message if she likes what she read and saw.
Even if a Sugar Baby ask about allowance when communicating online, you shouldn’t be put off by her requests or queries. You never know what kind of people she has encountered in her past experiences. Look at he profile, and that will give you a hint of if she is actually a gold digger. Sugar Daddies are expected to lead conversations in sugar arrangements. Again, browse through her profile to find conversation topics. Only when you are comfortable with how she has responded on messages can you think of texting.
The Next Step – Texting
If you liked communication with her through our sugar daddy website’s messenger, the next step is to take it to texting so you can move forward from online dating communcation to a real date. This will show the Sugar Baby that you are really interested in her and will also make the conversation flow a bit smoother. However, you shouldn’t text too much and always understand your value. Just like an experienced Sugar Baby wouldn’t ask for her allowance on texting, a Sugar Daddy should not don’t get too sexual on texting as well. An experienced Sugar Baby would know better than wasting her time on a Sugar Daddy who discuss intimacy on texting and will consider moving on.
When texting, a Sugar Daddy should always converse in the direction which takes the arrangement towards a date. Try and converse about topics that could only be completed when you meet. Ask her about their favorite movie or a Broadway show they like most; only then could you propose watching a similar movie at the cinema. Anyone who is genuinely interested in you would understand that you are approaching them in a certain way. If the stop any conversation moving towards a date, you should know that they are not interested. All a Sugar Daddy can do is to ask questions and put the ball in their court without being too direct. Or ask them directly, there is no harm in that.
Do Not Screw Things Up
The key while texting is to never discuss topics that would scare her away. Leave those topics for later, meet them first and give them a feel of who you are. Moreover, when on a date do not extend the date beyond two hours maximum. Your texting would have given you an understanding of how your arrangement would be and also what would they be expecting. The first date is all about extending on your conversation on texts and get to know each other better. It is always best to communicate clearly and lay out expectations on the table.
As a Sugar Daddy, you should know that there will always be women who just want money out of a sugar arrangement. There are bad people everywhere and sugar arrangements are no different. Finding a sugar partner takes time and patience. The best anyone can do is to keep a positive mindset and good things will come your way.