Whether you’ve been in the sugar game for a while or are pretty new, keep on reading on how to find a wealthy man and progress to a sugar relationship and start dating.
Stick to an Online and Real-Life Identity
Whether you’re a southern belle, a girl working hard to leave her small town behind, a collegiate who has high career aspirations, a girl next door, a vixen who finds older men attractive, a young lady who loves to travel the world, focus on how you want to identify yourself. Customize your online profile as needed. Ensure that you’re underscoring your most attractive traits. You’re not supposed to play act, but be consistent and stick to your genuine identity. Merely become the best possible version of yourself. Case in point, if you think you’re a girl next door, don’t meet up with a possible Sugar Daddy wearing a tight dress with a plunging neckline and 5 inch heels. Choose to wear a modest outfit. While you should feel comfortable in what you’re wearing, there is value in sticking to your identity as long as this is you. People can tell the difference between the real and genuine you.
Put in the Work and Be Patient
The start of sugar dating is similar to normal dating where you need to look for someone you really like and would like to spend more time with. However, a Sugar Daddy also needs to be a person who caters to your particular needs. This additional criteria needs even more energy and time more than dating “regularly,” but, it’s typically worth it. Go through the different profiles, talk to as many possible candidates, and presume that you’ll probably have to go on many sugar dates prior to meeting the guy.
Be Honest and Straightforward
Many wealthy and successful men pick sugar dating because they value their time and appreciate efficiency. Since they don’t want to waste any time and effort, sugar babies have to be honest and straightforward about their expectations and needs. Sugar babies also should be able to ask as many questions as possible to find out if a particular sugar daddy’s intentions, approach, and expectations are a good match with theirs. In the early stages, a sugar baby should let the sugar daddy know her availability and willingness to meet and what exactly she requires with regards to shopping sprees, gifts, allowances, tuition support, vacations, bills payments, mentorship, housing, and the like. As a sugar baby, she should also be forthcoming about why she wants this sugar baby life. Sugar Daddies prefer to know what they’re doing so they can feel good about how they’re contributing to a young lady’s life.
Give an Agreement Outline that is Specific and Mutually Beneficial
When a Sugar Baby and a Sugar Daddy hit it off and their needs match, the next steps would be to concretize the particular relationship terms. If an agreement is specific, this is better because each one knows their obligations. You decide on days to meet up and for how long; the meeting place; the typical dates; possibility of hanging out alone or in public; getting gifts or payments; length of the relationship; deal breakers; and the like.
Don’t Get Too Comfortable
After months of just dating “regularly” you may get too comfortable and don’t put enough effort into the way you behave or dress. However, a Sugar Baby shouldn’t slack off if she wants a lasting relationship. Always look your best and be pleasant all the time. You objective is to be a top class companion. This doesn’t mean that you can’t have a bad day, but it always help not to see your Sugar Daddy in sweatpants.
Follow the Agreement
It’s not good to cancel on your Sugar Daddy, arrive late, or alter your agreement terms. The objective of having a solid agreement is to eliminate potential surprises. Moreover, wealthy older men are particularly very busy, hence Sugar Babies must be prepared to be adaptable to their schedules. This might be a lopsided situation, but this is part and parcel of sugar dating’s unwritten code. Be flexible, but only at a certain point. Sugar daddies are sufficiently wealthy to give his Sugar Baby gifts or allowances or whatever is needed. If a gift or payment has stalled, note this as a red flag.
If you’re dating wealthy and older men, you have to be discreet. Keep it on the safe side and assume that your Sugar Daddy wouldn’t want you posting photos of the two of you together on social media or going through particular details of your relationship with others.
Optimize Your Relationship
The benefits of dating your Sugar Daddy can reach beyond the original terms of the arrangement. The more you know him. Find out how you can make use of his influence, expertise, and contacts to get you ahead, not financially but also for networking. Consider your Sugar Daddy as an advisor, mentor, confidante and friend. As he is your romantic partner, learn from him too.
Have a Back-Up Plan
A sugar relationship can end anytime. Sugar Babies shouldn’t assume that they’ll have a longtime support from Sugar Daddies. So don’t be completely dependent on just one person. Always have a back-up plan. Either have a day job or look for extra income. It could be even another Sugar Daddy. Also, remember to save a part of your earnings from being a Sugar Baby.