Living in a world where people have various preferences, ideas, mindset and perceptions getting to know each other is of core importance which is why first dates are key to successful sugar arrangements. Be it a friendship or a relationship, vanilla or sugar, long term or short term the idea of getting to know each other remains constant and that’s what first dates are for. It is to be noted that the first date in a sugar relationship, just like vanilla relationships, is a sort of interview which revolves around the idea of getting to know each other in a comfortable manner. There’s no doubt that both Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby have a lot of expectations from each other and to cater to these expectations open and honest conversation is mandatory.
First dates in Sugar relationships are all about introductions, defining choices, trying to decide on the flow of the relationship, putting forth requirements and prioritizing what’s important. This meet-up is also essential for both partners to judge the level of compatibility on both ends, making it easier to decide if/weather both sugar partners should consider seeing each other on a second date. Your first date gives you a chance to focus on laying expectations on the table while erasing unnecessary doubts building a strong mutually beneficial relationship for both parties.
Kickstart a Conversation
Your first date night is an initial step towards your goal of finding a sugar partner that suits you best, but to actually get there the honest communication is important. Everyone converses on their first date but the amount of effort you put in to talk about other person’s interests, thoughts, hobbies, and preferences is what makes you different from the rest and helps you both connect seamlessly. Starting a conversation is easy, maintaining and steering it towards the right direction is where the effort is required.
Don’t stress out. Don’t panic by thinking you would end up saying something inappropriate, instead speak your heart out, say whatever is in your mind, because a sugar partner who is really interested in you won’t judge but will actually see beyond your words and decode your actions and decipher your intentions in positive ways only. A bit of background research is important before heading out on a sugar date. Skimming through your potential sugar partner’s profile will provide you with a lot of hints regarding his likes, dislikes, hobbies, and occupation, therefore providing you with a chance of starting a casual yet direct conversation. Stay put and don’t lose track. Communicate, converse and put everything on the table. It will help you in making a choice you wouldn’t regret!
Honesty is the Best Policy
Honesty has always been the key to a strong yet comfortable relationship. It defines the type of relationship you share with your partner in both vanilla and sugar relationships. Don’t consider honesty as an activity for your first date only, it is actually a very useful trait that should be on the table from the outset of your sugar relationship. Be confident, bold and honest; when on a first date ask whatever you feel like asking from potential sugar partner, set realistic expectations and terms. Talk through and talk everything out from financials to interests, likes to dislikes. This will let you both know how compatible both partners are without the risk of losing anything.
The right sugar partner will always take pride in the fact that you are trying to connect on multiple levels, making an honest effort without hiding anything. Don’t tone down your expectations or trim down your interests just because of the fear that your potential partner will leave. Always remember that he who’s meant for you will find their way to you and realize that relationships based on lies wouldn’t last long. Converse. Communicate. Conquer!
Get To Know Them Better
The first date is all about knowing your potential partner in every possible way. Consider your date as a platform where you are free to ask any questions. Once there, feel free to say all that you feel like, set preferences and learn more about your partner’s life. Remember that communication is the sole ingredient that can add spice to your life. Every individual is different, so are their thoughts and ideas. For a mutually beneficial relationship, it is of utmost importance to know your potential sugar partner inside out.
Ask questions, try to understand what he’s into, his routine, lifestyle, occupation, favorite destinations, food. EVERYTHING! Listen to what he says attentively portraying yourself as an attractive listener. This would not only keep your potential sugar partner engaged but also keep the flow of the conversation alive.
Don’t Lose Track
Steering your conversation to discuss details that matter is quite a task if you aren’t prepared. It requires a lot of patience, honesty, and attention. The key is to keep the conversation casual but also not losing track and discussing all that will lead to a stress-free, mutually beneficial relationship. Asking questions is always great and it shows that you are keen and eager to learn. Shoot. Ask away. Don’t be shy, don’t settle for less, listen to what your partner has to say with full concentration to make them feel wanted. The information you will gather from this first meet up will give you leads to start a conversation on the second, third or any number of meet-ups to follow.
For potential partners in a Sugar relationship, the element of compatibility is very important. It’s all about clicking with the right person and first dates are key. The first meet-up helps you set expectations, terms of agreements and ready for a life-changing experience.
