Great conversation during a first date is and always will be the most important part to making the second date a sure thing. It doesn’t matter how good you may look or how well dressed you may be if the conversation is overall incredibly dull and boring. During the first date, both Sugar Baby and Sugar Daddy are hoping to minimize any nervousness and anxiousness that may be present and the best way to do that is with a positive interaction with interesting topics, sharing, and good banter. Here’s a few quick tips on how you can make your next first sugar date a better and more successful one.
If your date is asking all the questions and showing all the interest during the entire date, you’re probably doing conversations all wrong and need a bit of practice and situational awareness to prevent it from happening too often. Any small topic can be broken down into something deeper and with a bit of back-and-forth, conversations become a lot of fun.
No matter what your conversation is about or where it’s heading, a first date should always be about light and fun topics. Both Sugar Baby and Sugar Daddy are there for a fun time with lots of laughs while working towards being comfortable with one another. Being emotional, depressed, or dramatic is a great way to scare your date away and cut the night short.
Jokes & Humor
Not everyone’s a comedian but the good thing about dating is that if they’re into you, even your lamest jokes will have them laughing. If you’re not a big comedian, flirting, being playful, and a bit of harmless teasing works well as a substitute. Just don’t overdo it, especially the teasing part, at least not until you get a better grasp of their personality and reactions.
Dreams & Goals
Talk about the goals you’ve set for your self, your successes, your failures, and what dreams you have for your future self. Learning about your date’s passions is an easy way to get to know them and understand where they’re trying to go from that point on and how their work, education, and life choices got them to where they are now on a date with you.
Discussing personalities is the best way to have someone be truly honest about themselves on date and since it’s not a very standard topic, your date will most likely find it very intriguing. You can ask and answer questions that revolve around the development of your personality, attitude, behavior, thoughts, openness, and being introverted or extroverted.
Talk about what you enjoy doing in your free time. It’s a great way to find common interests and makes splitting the conversation in different directions incredibly easy. Make sure your hobbies are actually hobbies and not just things you do. If you love movies, you should know a few things about them. The styles, genres, actors, directors, easter eggs, etc..
Talk about what appeals to you when traveling and vacationing away from home. Diving into aspects of culture and history is an simple way to have lots to talk about. Your Favorite chocolates, foods, restaurants, attractions, festivals, traditions, dances, music, etc.. Finding common interests here is a quick way to make a future date one that includes travel.
Talk about your most epic vacations, the nights out, the scary stories, the memorable times, the actions packed scenes, and the embarrassing moments of your past. Whatever makes for an engaging or funny story is a great topic. Just try not to share anything that is disgusting + embarrassing, you might want to keep that very private until a way off future date.