A cuddle buddy, companion, travel partner, and emotional support is something most of us want and the unspoken fact is, there are tons of Sugar Daddies seeking these out. When in a sugar arrangement your Sugar Daddy is there to take care of all your needs and you his, and although intimacy is a part of many sugar arrangement, they aren’t all about sex. As a Sugar Baby who doesn’t want intimacy to completely take over her sugar relationship, you are not alone. Many Sugar Daddies want more than just sex too. Another misconception is that if a Sugar Baby doesn’t put out, she doesn’t get as many benefits; this statement is entirely untrue.
Have you ever thought why a sugar relationship is referred to as an arrangement? This is solely because a sugar relationship lets you be in control of yourself. Whether a Sugar Daddy or Sugar Baby, you get to decide what you want to get out of your sugar arrangement. You set the terms and decide on limits in close coordination with your sugar partner. If you have just started your journey in the sugar world you should know that communication has an integral role in determining the success of your arrangement which is why if you fail to discuss the terms at the start, your arrangement is likely to not last long. Always speak up about your expectations and desires. Do not take things for granted or hesitate. If you don’t want sex to be a part of your sugar relationship you should be upfront about it.
Are Balanced Sugar Arrangements Possible?
Yes! A balanced sugar arrangement where you and your Sugar Daddy work on and take pleasure from other aspects of your personality and not your body is possible, but only if you let them know. It is possible that you may have to talk to lots of potential Sugar Daddies before finding the right one. However, rest assured that there is someone for everyone. Once you do find the right person, make everything clear. Ask questions and inquire about their needs from them. If you feel that you are on the same page as them only then should you start an arrangement with them.
Another factor to take into account when discussing sugar arrangements is that every relationship on this planet evolves and never remains the same. It is quite possible that you may start an arrangement with a no-sex term in it and then might to have sex later on. There’s nothing wrong with it.
But why would a Sugar Daddy not want to get intimate more often? There is no one answer to this question because each of us is different. Maybe he is married and doesn’t want to get intimate but just wants someone to take care of him emotionally. Sugar Daddies are successful men because they have been working all their life towards their business goals. When they reach a certain age, some of them feel a certain void that can’t be filled with money. That emotional hunger, the touch of a cuddle buddy, and the excitement of a travel partner can only be satiated with a caring person by their side. This is just one aspect and there could be limitless reasons why a Sugar Daddy might not want to get intimate. But what is of more importance is to know that such Sugar Daddies do exist.
Where Do I Find Such A Sugar Daddy?
First off, never write about your sexual presences on your profile in a direct manner. Regardless of if he’s interested in having sex or not, mentioning it on your profile won’t work well for you. Just as you won’t put any financial figures or something as personal as your address in your profile, you shouldn’t be putting this detail too. Moreover, if a Sugar Daddy asks you when he first messages that if you’ll be alright with sex, you should just know right away that he is bad news.
Having said all this, our sugar dating site is still the best place to meet any type of unique Sugar Daddy because searching for a cuddle buddy, a travel partne, and more is so easy. Even if you don’t mention about your sexual presences openly, your expectations can be depicted from the details on your profile. On the other hand, there is no way to know whether one is or is not a Sugar Daddy just by looking at someone sitting in a bar. Your profile details and the way you talk will lead you to find a Sugar Daddy of your choice. However, if you don’t find one immediately, don’t be disappointed, because well…good and special things take time.
What If I Like Sex?
The good thing about sugar arrangements is that they let you do what you want to do and have what you want to have by further discussion of the arrangement. If, later in your relationship, you feel that your Sugar Daddy have reached a certain level of connection and you want to take your arrangement to the next level, just talk to him. If he agrees, there is no harm in getting intimate as long as you don’t let your emotions get the better of you. In fact, wouldn’t it actually be a compliment to the other person if you weren’t ok with intimacy at first but are now?