People who have just started sugaring face a problem in arranging their first date with a Sugar Daddy or Sugar Daddy. This is probably because you’re making mistakes you shouldn’t make. Sugaring is sometimes not as easy as it sounds. To succeed even as a total amateur Sugar Daddy you need to understand how to lead a Sugar Baby from our trusty sugar dating site to an actual date.

Messaging
When you’re a Sugar Daddy at a sugar dating site there are only two possibilities, either a Sugar Baby will message or you will message her first. First of all, let’s just this clear that there is no harm in messaging first. The content for your first message should include a brief introduction to yourself. If the Sugar Baby you’ve messaged is interested, she will reply. If she does not reply you should not waste your time on her and look for other options.

If your Sugar Baby messages first, your response should still be a brief introductory message. If, after that message, she requests to know about you and you’re interested in her too, you should reveal more information about yourself. Keep in mind that being a Sugar Daddy, you Sugar Baby will expect you to lead the interaction between you two. She won’t ask you for what you are looking for in a sugar relationship, instead, she will wait for you to ask the question and reply to you. Before moving further, take a look at her profile for one last time and decide if she is the Sugar Baby you want.

Texting
If you like what you have known about your Sugar Baby until now, it is now time to stop messaging her online and move things to text. This will not only show that you’re seriously considering her as your Sugar partner it will also help ease the flow of the conversation. However, you need to spend your time wisely and if she demands too much of your time, you should subtly let her know that it is not how sugar relationships work. If things have been flowing smoothly until this moment, you can ask her for pictures and see how she responds to your request. Bear in mind that being too sexual over text can lead any good Sugar Baby away.

Meet at A Date
When you start texting you should keep a clear objective in mind which is to plan a meet with your Sugar Baby. Without being too direct, drop hints that you would like to meet in person. Ask when she will be in town or will be free from her busy work routine since you’d love to meet her in person. Tell her you’d be available at what times. Any legitimate Sugar Baby will be excited when you say you want to meet her on a meet. If she responds to your questions, know that she isn’t interested and move on. If she says she is out of town at the moment, ask her when she’ll get back and tell her to inform you of a date and time that suits her.

Protocols of the First Date
Don’t screw up your first date by having or asking for sex on the first date. Keep the date short and casual but do talk to her in detail to get to know her better. Treat her well to give her a taste of what it would be like of being with you. If she asks for you to book her an Uber that is perfectly alright but anything beyond a great meal and a safe ride home is a good sign you that this isn’t a Sugar Baby you can be with for a longer period of time. A good Sugar Baby knows she expect any allownce on the first date.