Writing a successful first message is the key to improving your chances with your favorite Sugar Babies. The perfect approach require a balance of information. Not too little and definitely not too much. You should leave them guessing but also intrigued by your words and profile. With the right message, you’ll be much more likely to succeeded in your online dating habits. First impressions in person leave a big impact but so do first messages online. Let’s discuss a few critical points below.
“How r u doin?” No thank you! Grammar and spelling errors are an obvious one but so many people fail at this and think nothing of it. It instantly shows that a lack of awareness or thought went into the message. This is easily visible to Sugar Babies and since they most likely have well written messages from other users, they will avoid ones with simple grammar mistakes.
Minimalism is an art form. You first message should be between 2 to 4 sentences max. Keep it short, to the point, and unique to the individual. A good message should include what you like about her, something common between the two of you, one interesting fact about you, and a question. Everything else you believe to be positive attribute should be written in your profile’s bio.
If you first message does not include something from the Sugar Baby’s bio, it is a bad message. Take the time to read through their profile and find something that they seem passionate about or something that you both have in common. This shows you are genuinely interested in moving forward with a conversation and are someone that is capable of caring about their desires.
Message and Bio:
Of course your overall successful response rate improves by having a great bio. Another thing that can improve first messages is a connection between the message and your bio. For example, if you let the Sugar Baby know you are a pilot, it’s great if you have some information about your experience a pilot in your bio. This helps place you in a more authentic and sincere light.
Always keep your first message positive and upbeat. Let it radiate just a bit of excitement at the thought of a connection with the Sugar Baby. Never start a conversation by mentioning how lonely, sad, depressed, or angry at life you may currently be. These are issues to discuss with a therapist or close friends and family, not an online acquaintance. Try to find you happy place.
We know a lot of Sugar Daddies want to start impressing Sugar Babies with their glamorous lifestyle, vacations, and date proposals right away. The good news is that you can but only because our platform was built to make asking a Sugar Baby out a stress free process. Once you send your first message, follow it up with a date proposal that matches the Sugar Baby’s travel interests.