Sugar Dating between Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies is all about keeping each other happy every possible way no matter the circumstances; so would it matter if one sugar partner is an introvert and the other is an extrovert? Of course, it would! We all have different personalities and a Sugar Baby and Sugar Daddy are no different. Although a sugar arrangement is based on fulfilling each other’s needs, a personality and interest match is always important in any kind of relationship.
When you’re talking to someone online, you might not have a clearer idea of their personality and when you meet you get to know them in a much better way. If you’ve ever encountered an introverted or extroverted sugar partner, you would know that it can be drastically different than dating someone else. What do you do if you really like the person and they are an introvert? If you don’t handle the situation well, things could go really wrong and the arrangement would be doomed even before it starts. For those of you wondering how to carry on an introvert-extrovert sugar relationship, we’ve listed some tips below.
Online vs. Meeting
As we all know, texting or chatting on a sugar dating site and meeting in person are two different things. However, if you’re an introvert meeting an extrovert sugar partner or vice versa, the key is to go all in with confidence and believe that they know about you and have still chosen you. This is when you have told them enough about yourself for them to understand that you’re an introvert. If you haven’t told them, you should have before the meeting.
It’s hard to believe but in fact, there is something for everyone in an extrovert-into sugar relationship. An introvert can be a great listener while an extrovert can keep the communication going and ask the right questions. An introvert is seen as someone who can be trusted and although they aren’t exactly a fan of small talk, when it comes to having deep conversations, they are the best. Both introverts and extroverts have a lot to offer but only if you face the situation and don’t avoid it.
Respect Each Other
Once you’ve decided that you will be a sugar partner even if they’re opposed to your personality, you need to start respecting each other’s needs and desires. This can only be done if you have enough information about each other. It will definitely take some time getting used to each other. However, respecting doesn’t mean that you let them go too far with their comfort zone, so much so that your needs get ignored.
Remember that sugar dating is about mutual benefits. Though it is very hard to find people who settle for compromises in the sugar world if you really like each other the only way to a long-lasting introvert-extrovert sugar arrangement is finding the middle ground.
Ask & Listen
Only asking the right questions will lead you to know each other well. Questioning will let you know what they love or hate doing. As time passes, you will know how socializing can an introverted Sugar Baby get and what business parties an extroverted Sugar Daddy doesn’t want you to miss. Asking questions will lead you to the middle ground necessary for surviving in such a relationship. You may figure out that even an introvert can be alright with socializing in controlled situations and even an extrovert requires sometimes to themselves. Everyone has some boundaries of their, they key is to understand them.
Don’t Avoid Discussions
Communication remains an integral part of any sugar arrangement and coordination in this regard is crucial is required regardless of who you are as a person. If an introvert needs time to discuss any term of the arrangement, you should provide them with time but then they should be the one to bring that topic up once they’re ready. This way an introverted sugar partner is taking care of the fact their extroverted sugar partner doesn’t have to repeat their query and feel pushy. On the other hand, an extrovert partner should take responsibility to confront any issues in the arrangement and tell their introvert partner that sweeping issues under the rug won’t solve them.
Can The Arrangement Go On?
Sugar arrangements are different than a traditional relationship in so many ways. There’s mutual effort required in an arrangement but it’s different than that in a vanilla relationship. The effort in a sugar arrangement is made in accordance with the agreed terms and is thus stress-free. An introvert or extrovert sugar dating partner brings a new dynamic into an arrangement, which may be the cause of some stress at the start.
However, if you like your partner, you then have to adhere to the responsibility of meeting them halfway. You have understood that introversion or extroversion isn’t an excuse and no one should have to ask for attention in a sugar relationship. There are a lot of fish in the sugar world and if someone is with you it is because they genuinely like you; respect that!