Experienced Sugar Daddy or not, first sugar dates are always a daunting experience for many, and can become even more hard in sugar relationships if you don’t prepare well. Mapping out your actions before a first sugar date is actually not a bad idea. Knowing what you would talk about before meeting your Sugar Daddy on that all-important date gives you a chance to meet them well-prepared and ready to have fun.
Too many of Sugar Babies return home thinking why their first date experience didn’t go as well as the thought it would. That is because they never planned for the way they imagined their first date. Fantasizing is one thing; for things to become a reality, an effort is required. Here are some tips for Sugar Babies wanting to impress their Sugar Daddy on the first date.
Start The Conversation
When you have a man twice your age sitting next to you, it can be confusing to think of topics to converse on. The easiest way to start a conversation on a sugar date is to pick a topic you think they’ll be interested in based on what you saw was written on their profile.
However, if the details on his profile didn’t give you enough data for you to decide on a topic, just a pick any topic you think would be of interest to him. General topics such as traveling or movies are a good starting point. Communication is crucial to the success of a sugar relationship. A Sugar Daddy would love to have a Sugar Baby around who knows how to communicate. He knows this a quality that will contribute to a happy sugar relationship.
At the first sugar date, both of you will be showing off your best features and qualities. The need to impress each other can make a first date experience quite stressful if impressing each other is all you’re focusing on. Yes, first dates are about getting them to text you back afterward, but that shouldn’t stop you from having fun.
Ask questions, tell him what you love to do and listen to what he has to say. When he does tell you about his interests, make them the subject of your conversation and always keep the conversation light and fun. Every experienced Sugar Daddy likes having a Sugar Baby around who can say the positive and fun aspect in everything. Showing them that you are with someone who likes to have fun will increase your chances of getting a second date with them.
He’s Nervous Too
When on the first date with Sugar Daddy, sometimes you won’t be the only one who is nervous. Even an experienced Sugar Daddy would also want to impress you and that would put pressure on him as well. Only when he sees that the girl sitting in front of him is in a relaxed mood will he get comfortable.
Also, remember that it is not all about you talking about your interests. He would want to tell you what he wants from the arrangement too. Listen to him and ask any questions you have. By doing this you will be showing him that you care about his desires too.
Do Not Complain
Maybe you had a bad experience at the beauty salon a night before your date or the designer spoiled your dress, but never complain about things when with a Sugar Daddy on a first date. Always try and show that you’re all about being positive. Even he starts talking about how frustrating his last trip to Hawaii was because he couldn’t close a deal, you should never complain about things just because he is. The key is to never show you negative side on a first date…and even after.
What To Wear
This no guide that would tell you what you wear on a first sugar date. Most of the time you’ll have to go with your instinct while also keeping some factors in check. Firstly, you would obviously the place you’d be visiting. Google the venue and try to dress according to it. A Sugar Daddy will most probably be taking you to a fine dining restaurant. If the that’s the case, dress classy.
Also, make sure you are wearing something you’re comfortable in. Also, remember that you’re meeting a wealthy man and rich men seldom show off. Have you ever seen Bill Gates or Mark Zuckerberg flaunting their designer clothes on a red carpet at an event? That’s because for successful men it is always about looking well-groomed in whatever they’re wearing. He would be expecting the same from you.
Read the details on his profile carefully before going on a date with him. The information on his profile. Will give you points to talk about. You might even find one or two interests that you share. If he has used his real name on his sugar profile and you searched around his Facebook or LinkedIn just a know a little more about him or his work, do not tell him that. Any information you have about him will give you an edge when on a first sugar date.