Regardless of if you’re an experienced Sugar Daddy or Sugar Baby or someone who is new to this kind of relationship, going on a first date always takes some preparation. Whatever you do just remember that the person you are meeting will also be nervous as he also will look to create a great first impression. We list down some verbal and non-verbal guidelines for you to follow to make your first date a success.
Sugar Daddy – Dos
First things first, always be clear about what you expect from this sugar relationship. Convey your expectations to your Sugar Baby, such as the amount of time you want her to spend with you but do keep in mind that she has a life out of this sugar relationship. The key to any great relationship is being clear and honest and a sugar relationship is no different. Telling a Sugar Baby what you expect from her can be a time saver for both you as no one wants to spend time with the wrong person. Remember that your Sugar Baby should never feel the need to state what she wants from you, if she wanted this she would be in a regular relationship. Even if you are on a first date, go above and beyond to treat her well in every way possible.
Sugar Daddy – Don’ts
Yes, a Sugar Baby will be dependent on you for certain benefits and perks in life but that doesn’t mean you can get whatever you want from her without her consent. She is a human being and has her desires and priorities. You not should look to score on a first date; your Sugar Baby will be expecting her Sugar Daddy to be a gentleman, not someone who wants to get in her pants just like any other younger guy would want to.
Sugar Baby – Don’ts
You’ll be getting whatever you want from a Sugar Daddy when you are dating him. As a Sugar Daddy, he knows you’ll be expecting to be spoiled. Do not bring up the names of expensive brands you’d want in your wardrobe or ask to go shopping after a first date. This will make a Sugar Daddy feel you are not making an effort to get to know him which is the base for a long-term relationship. When you are conversing about his interests and telling him yours, you can not only convey the fact that you are genuinely interested in him but also avoid awkward silences.
Sugar Baby – Dos
Communicate your basic preferences and interests to know if you are on the same page or not. Before jumping to discussing other arrangements get to know each other. Other things can be worked out in the days to come. After a first date or even during one, judge if he is the Sugar Daddy you’re looking for and don’t settle for just anyone. Ask yourself questions such as was it easy to make a conversation with him, is he someone you will still be willing to spend time with after a few months have passed by.
Sugar Daddies love someone mature who can hold conversations with them about things that actually matter. Before showing up on a date, do a little background research on what your Sugar Daddy does for a living and when on a date talk about topics related to his work or interests. Also, show him that you are someone who has goals of her own and is not looking to live off someone else’s money all her life. Make sure you look classy and elegant on your first date. See where you are meeting and dress accordingly. Put the nerves behind, have fun and just be yourself.