If you’re a Sugar Baby who’s not only looking to live life to its fullest but also learn how to be successful, you may be searching for a Sugar Daddy who could mentor you. Do you see mentorship as a benefiting of Sugar Daddy dating? There’s a lot of misunderstanding about how mentoring works in a sugar relationship including how to begin a relationship with a Sugar Daddy who you want to be a mentor. If you are Sugar Baby looking for a mentor, you should be with someone is who is comfortable with transferring to you his knowledge and perhaps even help you a bit financially in establishing a business or allow access to his network in the industry of your interest.
Is He The Perfect Fit For You?
When seeking a role of mentorship, you first have to determine what kind of help you intend to seek from your Sugar Daddy. Imagine yourself on a first date with your Sugar Daddy, you guys hit it off and start dating. A few weeks later you ask you need help to start a business and he says he can’t. He works at a corporate company which pays well and while you might think he has the lifestyle you want; he has actually never started a business on his own, he is just someone who manages an organization. If you want a Sugar Daddy to be your mentor you will have to do more than just finding someone with a lot of money, you’ll need to have a strategy to finding someone who is a perfect fit for you.
Wait For The Right Moment
It is important to know the extent to which he might help or considering helping you at all will be based solely on the connection you two have. For this reason, it is advised to not ask for mentorship on your first date because he would still be determining if he likes you and whether he can trust you and so you might want to hold off to talk about mentorship until after the next few dates. Furthermore, if you start dating he might not be comfortable with you accompanying him to business meetings at first but may be alright with it if you are to able to reach a significant level of trust.
Make Him Believe
Don’t act like someone who is all talk and does not believe in actually acting upon what they plan to do. If your Sugar Daddy reaches to the conclusion that you’re just a girl who has big plans but are not willing to put the necessary hard work needed, he wouldn’t consider mentoring you and why should he? When you bring up the topic of mentoring and he asks you what your goals are, do not just say you want to be an entrepreneur, instead, give him a proper presentation on what exactly you intend to do. Show him the data you’ve collected or the research you’ve already conducted and make him believe you’re already working towards achieving your goals.
Know Your Sugar Daddy
Put in an effort to know your Sugar Daddy before asking for help. Is he in the same industry you’re looking to pursue a career in? Someone who is the Head of Finances at an organization if you are looking to pursue a career in the entertainment industry. Moreover, get to know them on a personal level. Showing interest in his story would help you connect with them better which would lead to trust.
Put Yourself in His Shoes
Always put yourself in their shoes before asking for help. If the roles were reversed would be willing to help the person sitting next to you? If yes, why? And if the answer is no, then you might want to ask yourself why not? Improve on your shortcomings and only when you feel confident enough about yourself should you ask for help.
Lastly, understand that if a Sugar Daddy is not willing to help you at all you have to respect that. This may be because they don’t trust you to be someone who they would be comfortable in sharing the tricks of the trade with or don’t want to expose you to their connections because they don’t want your relationship to become public knowledge. That is exactly why you should choose your Sugar Daddy wisely and while you can not know from the start you can build towards a strong relationship where he truly cares about you and your future.