Sugar relationships are a fun and stress-free way of dating your desired partner which is why it highly desired among young girls and older wealthy men. Although there is much more to a successful sugar relationship, just like any other relationships sex and intimacy are important of this relationship between a Sugar Daddy and a Sugar Baby which is why knowing your roles under the sheets is a sure way of spicing things up in your relationship and mutual satisfaction. If you are both into BDSM or one of you is turned on by it and the other one has to adapt, you both should help each other to define roles in a BDSM sugar relationship. However, if you have never been in a BDSM relationship before you might find it hard to decide if the dominant role suits you best or you are better off being a submissive Sugar Baby.
BDSM is vast, very vast! It encompasses a wide range of activities and is basically the consensual exchange of power among partners. BDSM can be casual role playing from time to time whereas some might define their relationship as a BDSM one which includes 24/7 role-playing. The signs of whether you are dominant or submissive are deep-rooted in your personality and can be identified. We’ve tried listed down the most common traits of a submissive and dominant partner to help you discover which role suits you best. Note: The below characteristics are common among people but having all or none of listed down traits doesn’t mean you are or aren’t a dominant or submissive. At the end of the day, it is your preferences that matter.
Submissive people are never assertive meaning they don’t prioritize themselves in most situations and are always thinking about putting the other person and his priorities first. This tendency in real life puts them in a place where they’d like to do the same in any scenario, including sex. They won’t draw attention and while some people might think they’re shy, but it is actually their way of remaining unnoticed. Because they think so much about others, they themselves become vulnerable and need someone to take care of them, hence adapting for the submissive role. It is almost natural for them to be in relationships where they are depending on someone and have a secondary role.
Apart from the personality, some people just prefer being submissive when it comes to sex. Such people might be big shots at work but when it comes to sex, they love to let go of all the power and submit to their dominant’s will. Ask yourself if you would feel at peace and excited when submitting to your Sugar Daddy? Would it feel odd to you to be the one dominating in bed? Would you want to just let go of the pressures of everyday life and be controlled when getting intimate with your Sugar Daddy? If you’ve answered yes to all these and the idea of pleasing someone else turns you on, you might well be submissive.
Obvious from the term ‘dominant’, they have a very decisive approach towards life. They prefer to lead in every situation and are confidence risk-takers who are motivated by challenges in life. When we talk about someone who is dominant in bed, we’re referring to a Sugar Baby to whom dominating her Sugar Daddy is the best part of getting intimate with him. She feels at home when she is in control of her Sugar Daddy and gets hugely turned on when dominating during sex. If the idea of dominating is way more appealing than routine sex for you, you young lady are a definite dominant!