I'm a trans guy (meaning I was assigned 'female' at birth) looking for an ethically non-monogamous connection. I'm flexible in what I'm looking for: I can do friends with benefits, no strings attached, just friends...or I'd be very open to a romantic connection with the right person.

To be upfront, I have a busy schedule. I'm in an open relationship, I have kids, and I maintain a few other important intimate connections. However, I'd like to see where you'd like to fit in. I'd love to find someone who'd appreciate regular weekly plans and the occasional spur-of-the-moment date. Aside from being on-call for emergencies, the time I spend with you is yours alone, no matter if it's a quick breakfast or an overnight date.

I do perfer other LGBTQ folks, but I'm open to informed allies. For the right person, I'm open to answering questions and showing you the ropes.

I'm a quiet but passionate activist, artist, and I love the outdoors. I enjoy being connected to the community, fun nights out, and quiet nights in. I love travelling and trying new things. I'm not much of a sports or cars guy, but I'm happy to indulge someone I care about. If you really want to get my attention, take me to a horror movie :) I would love to find someone to laugh with, share experiences, and get very comfortable.

So were clear on what you're getting into: I have taken hormone replacements for 14 years. I have had chest reconstruction surgery, though no other procedures, and I am comfortable with that. I am not "in shape" and have (just a few) extra lbs, and am actively working toward a different body shape. That being said, I can't accompany you to the gym - I wouldn't even know where to begin.

I'm committed to healthy, ethical relationships. I will treat you with the utmost respect, and I expect the same. I'm very big on active, intentional communication between partners.

If all of that sounds like something you're interested in, let's talk! I'd love to grab coffee or drinks and see how our chemistry goes. I'm excited to meet someone new and hopefully make that special connection.