Hi, I'm Cassandra Lynn,
I am single. A mother of 3. I'm 4'11, 100lbs. I'm a very small lady. I'm honest, funny, smart, I have common sense, love to cook, history, museums, art, I'm very creative, loving with my whole heart, adventurous, getting lost on a back road or in the mountains somewhere, affectionate, learning new things, cuddling, movies, good beer, food, sports games, shopping....duh it's been a long long time. And so much more to offer as a person.
I have had literally had the year from hell. Left my abusive husband, with my kids. Stayed in a very small one room motel w my kids for a month. Was able to get a 1bdr apartment in june 2020. Had a job all that good stuff. Was working but needed an evening babysitter to watch the kids from 5-10p. Hired a high school student to babysit. The evenings she baby sat I had the apartment clean, dinner ready, pj's laid out, ect ect. This high school girl didnt do anything while she babysit. She didnt clean up after the kids, she didnt give the kid baths, didnt do dishes, anything a baby sitter should be doing, she definitely wasnt, she was even taking naps🙄. But she still was being handed pretty much my whole paycheck for sitting on her ass.
I was paying what I could on rent an essentials for the kids and I. This went on for a little while. Tried everything I could think of in finding a new babysitter, and assistance with rent, I kept getting turned down left an right. My landlord (slumlord) didn't find that the effort I was putting in to pay rent was good enough. Ended up evicting my kids and I. Just before Christmas 2020.
I ended up having to ask my sister to take my oldest son aaden 11. She agreed. An than having to tell my abusive exhusband that he needed to keep the two youngest Ashton 3 an alana 2 in April. As for me I became homeless. I was absolutely crushed. I missed my daughter alanas first steps because of being evicted, along with many other mile stones. I grieved my kids like they had all passed away. I have been a single parent for 11 year an now all of a sudden I wasnt able to provide for us because of a greedy HS girl.
I was staying in my vehicle.....until I crashed my 2000 ford explorer with everything that I owned inside into 20 foot culvert. I'm lucky to be alive today. The only thing that saved me was my spair tire under the carriage that had caught on a boulder which prevented the vehicle from rolling. I walked away with only a few bruises. Thank goodness. For two weeks after I was staying where I could than a friend of mine offered for me to stay with him and his family.
Which I am still currently staying with. I've had the worst year of my life. I've never had anyone take care of me for once. I've always been the one taking care of everyone else. For once in my life I would LOVE to be the one being taken care of. Not having to worry where my next meal is coming from or how an I going to do this or that. I haven't had nice things. The love and dedication that I give to others is just over the top. Im a really good person, I dont have a mean bone in my body. I have always gone up and beyond, someone's expectations of what a partner should do...so why I am still single is a mystery to me an your guess is as good as mine.
I would absolutely love love love to travel, but I first need to mail off a request an money I dont have to the American state department for a new copy because i was born in Germany. Hoping to get the right one back.😐
Well that is just a little bit about what I have gone through in the not even a years amount of time.
If you would like to chat an potentially like to pamper this very good hearted fun loving little sugar baby. I would be ever so grateful for you and everything you have to offer!! Im looking for a genuine, sweet, romantic, gentle soul, good sense of humor, goofy, adventurous,
foodie, confident, go getter, knows what he wants an will fight for it til he cant fight anymore, since of style, smart but alway willing to learn new things, protective,
If you have made it this far i must have intrigued you, an willing to get to know more about each other well I hope to talk to you very soon!
Cassandra💜